Monday, February 29, 2016

Being Mortal by Atul Gawande

Subtitle: Medicine and What Matters in the End -- I was hesitant at first to read this.  I know that death is inevitable and sometimes I just don't want to think about it.  Gawande is a doctor and the longer in his profession he saw things that were lacking when it came to the end of life.  Doctors are taught to save people at all costs, almost to the point of the patient be damned.  He wrote about many different cases, including his fathers, and how everything was dealt with.  There are the doctors that took the time to listen and nurses and hospice care that gave value back to peoples lives.  Family is always hard, and being young and faced with a terminal illness is challenging.  You don't want to give up.  As the patient there are things to look at and we always talk about the quality of life.  Three questions that I came away with and that I will use with me and my family when things are nearing the end are: 1. What are your goals? 2. What are your fears? and 3. Where is the line in the sand?  These things can change as your health changes, but it gives everyone a baseline to work with and control to the one whose life is directly being affected.  The end of life does not need to be a terrible experience and we need to remember that doctors don't always know what is best.

Don't Stop the Carnival by Herman Wouk

I have listened to Jimmy Buffet's Don't Stop the Carnival many times, based on this book, but had not taken the time to read it.  A gentleman from New York, Norman Paperman, falls in love with this island, Amerigo, and buys a motel there thinking it will just be paradise.  Once there he learns much more than he ever bargained for.  Between getting the lay of the land, learning the island politics and dealing with guests who just want to experience the tropics he gets more than a handful of troubles.  At times I felt the book dragged a bit, but there was much humor, much of which I could relate too.  Enjoyable, funny and worth the time.

Wednesday, February 3, 2016

Captive Star by Nora Roberts

Stars of Mithra, #2 -- A bounty hunter, Dakota, thinks he is in for an easy take and is quite surprised.  It turns out that it is not as easy as it seems.  M.J. takes him down and quickly puts him in his place.  They both end up get run after and shot at not really knowing why.  They get very close to finding the answers, but not before the people that had been chasing them die.  M.J. gets back together with her friend Bailey, who had sent her a gem stone and is relieved she is okay.  They still need to find Grace who has the last stone.  And of course, in true Roberts fashion Dakota and M.J. fall in love.